Resources

For anyone struggling after the Bondi Beach attack

We are all reeling after Sunday’s shooting at Bondi Beach at a Chanukah celebration. We are aware that many live or work locally and may have been at Bondi Beach when events unfolded; we have no doubt there will be substantial impact to the Community from the unexpected and tragic events. We want to extend our wishes as a Team for the safety of Jewish and local communities, and acknowledge those among us who might have lost or be caring for any of those directly impacted on Sunday evening, as well as those who might have been present or witness to any violence as it unfolded. Our deep condolences are extended to the victims and their families.

What to expect after a traumatic event
For anyone struggling with feelings of shock, fear, anger or confusion, these are normal responses after a traumatic event. You might find yourself experiencing a range of things including:

  • Shock, numbness or disbelief
  • Feeling constantly on edge
  • Heightened anxiety
  • Sadness or tearfulness
  • Anger or irritability
  • Nausea, headaches, shaking or fatigue
  • Intrusive thoughts or images
  • Withdrawing from others
  • Strong emotions that feeling challenging to control
  • Difficulty sleeping, concentrating or going about your usual day-to-day tasks or roles
  • A sense that situations or places might feel unsafe

 

These experiences dont mean something is “wrong” with you. And you dont need to have been directly involved to experience distress. Many who have watched on from the safety of their homes will still experience a sense of the world as unsafe. For many these experiences will ease in time. Often at this early stage, what is needed is support, connection and a space to grieve. Not all distress will require active treatment immediately, and many responses and feelings of distress are likely to settle with time and support, and in connection with others. Psychological first aid has been shown to be important and beneficial for those present, present, impacted by, or struggling with feelings related to Sunday’s events. It also applies to those struggling with hearing about or witnessing the events either at the time, or through media reporting in the days and weeks after.  In the face of the unspeakable it is important to find safety and connection.

For some, distress might persist and/or worsen with time. If this happens, it is important to seek professional support. And if you or someone you know is feeling unsafe, please dont hesitate to seek more urgent support by seeing your GP, contacting Lifeline, or presenting to your nearest Emergency department.

Below, we have provided a range of supports you may find useful in navigating this difficult experience.

Please also feel free to reach out to the practice, so we are able to provide support or direct you towards other services as we are informed about them. The response from the community has been immense. You are not alone, please reach for the supports you need.

For our existing clients, we look forward to seeing you as usual and encourage you to raise any concerns you may have with your clinician. Please do get in touch if you anticipate having any difficulty attending and we will be happy to accommodate attendance via telehealth if needed during this challenging time. 

Supports available:

The NSW Government has provided a comprehensive set of resources including supports available and how to provide your condolences for those who would like to.

Jewish Care is available on  1300 133 660  

Jewish House has a a 24/7 crisis line for support: 1300 544 357 alongside other services, and a range of resources on their website for those who have experienced antisemitism

Hatzolah Melbourne is offering FREE one-on-one counselling sessions with experienced psychologists for anyone who needs someone to talk to at this time, whether directly affected or simply struggling after hearing the news, Book here  or call 03 8534 0100.

There is a drop in space for anyone needing psychological first aid. Message Danielle for group and individual sessions:
0435 177 388.

Safe Haven at the Sydney Children’s Hospital Randwick will operate extended hours from Monday 15 December to Friday 19 December from 10am to 7.30pm. This is a safe drop in service for anyone aged 7 to 17 years experiencing distress to talk to a peer worker or mental health clinician. No appointment needed

TELUS Health have activated 24/7 community crisis support line call 1800 512 188 for free professional emotional support available to anyone. This is in addition to support provided through EAP.

Victims Services have skilled counsellors able to provide support; Jewish counsellors are able to be requested. There may be other forms of support available to those directly impacted.

Contact NSW Mental Health triage line on 1800 011 511.

Contact Kids Helpline on 1800 650 890.

Resources:

Sesame street video: talking to children about violence
Helping children and adolescents cope with traumatic events
How to talk with children when the world feels scary (and others on this page)

Anyone who witnessed the event is urged to contact Crime Stoppers on 1800 333 000.

And for anyone simply feeling helpless and that they would like to contribute in a meaningful way, please consider doing One “Mitzvah” for Bondi.

Wanting to contribute in a meaningful way? 

For anyone simply feeling helpless who would like to contribute in a meaningful way, please consider doing One Mitzvah for Bondi
and find out more about what a “Mitzvah” is.

Eating Disorder

The Butterfly Foundation

A website supporting Australians experiencing eating disorders; Butterfly also has a Support Line on 1800334673.

Visit their website

 

Connect.ed

one stop shop for those with eating disorders to find credentialed eating disorder treatment providers

Visit their website

 

NEDC

NEDC is a government initiative providing information for those with eating disorders, carers and professionals about eating disorders.

Visit their website

 

FEAST

Information for people with eating disorders and their carers on a range of issues related to eating disorders. Under “Forum”,  Around the Dinner Table is a helpful forum for carers who want to get in touch with others caring for someone with an eating disorder.

Visit their website

 

Positive Body Image for teens

Information for teens as well as for parents on how to talk to young people about body image to provide positive messages about food and body acceptance.

Visit their website

 

Feed Your Instinct

Information for parents who are concerned their young person might be developing a problem with food/eating/body related issues.

Visit their website

 

Eva Musby's YouTube Channel

Information for parents with some great “how to” videos providing support on feeding and supporting a young person with an eating disorder. 

Visit their website

 

Depression/Anxiety

Beyond Blue

Information for those experiencing challenges and their supports / carers across a range of issues related to depression.

Visit their website

 

The Black Dog Institute

Information about mood disorders including depression, anxiety and bipolar disorders.

Visit their website

 

Mood Gym

An online Self-help programme for depression.

Visit their website

My Compass

Online self help programme for people experiencing depression, run and designed by The Black Dog Institute.

Visit their website

This Way Up

Practical online treatment for OCD

Visit their website

Mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

A website with information about ACT and mindfulness

Visit their website

 

Beyond now

An initiative of LifeLine to help those experiencing suicidal thoughts and/or risk to make an immediate plan for their safety

Visit their website

 

Trauma

Open Arms

A web portal for veterans suffering from PTSD

Visit their website

The Blue Knot Foundation

Supporting adult survivors of childhood trauma and abuse. 

Visit their website

Youth Websites

Headspace

Australia’s national mental health online initiative.

Visit their website

Somazone

A website addressing questions across a range of teen concerns including mental health challenges.

Visit their website

 

General

GROW

GROW is a self-help organisation for people living with a mental illness.

Visit their website

Head to Health

Head to Health is a recently released Government initiative to support anyone looking for help. It has a range of mental health resources, and direct links to online supports including immediate help if required. 

Visit their website

 

Suggested Books

Below are a list of suggested books which clients, families and carers may find helpful.

Trauma

  • Kolk, B. v. d. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Trauma. United Kingdom: Penguin Books Limited.
  • Levine, P. A. (1997). Waking the tiger: Healing trauma. California: North Atlantic books.
  • Levine, P. A. (2012). In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness. United States: North Atlantic Books.
  • Young, J. E., Klosko, J. S. (1994). Reinventing Your Life: The Breakthough Program to End Negative Behavior…and Feel Great Again. United States: Penguin Publishing Group.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

  • Harris, R. (2007). The happiness trap: Stop struggling, start living. Wollombi: Exisle.
  • Hayes, S., & Smith, S. (2005). Get out of your mind and into your life. New York: Guilford.

Anxiety

  • Aisbett, B. (1993). Living with ‘It’: A survivor’s guide to panic attacks. Australia: Harper Collins.

Depression

  • Aisbett, B. (2000). Taming the black dog: A guide to overcoming depression. Australia: Harper Collins.
  • Tanner, S., & Ball, J. (1999). Beating the Blues: A self-help approach to overcoming depression. Australia: Doubleday.

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

  • Moodie, P. (2023). The Joy Thief: How OCD Steals Your Happiness – and How to Get It Back. Australia: Allen & Unwin.

Perfectionism

  • Antony, M. M., & Swinson, R. P. (1998). When perfect isn’t good enough: Strategies for coping with perfectionism. Oakland: New Harbinger Publications Inc.
  • Brown, B. (2022). The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are. United States: Hazelden Publishing.

Please feel free to contact us if there is an area you are interested in reading about which is not represented here.